After years together, many couples find themselves longing for those heady days of a brand new relationship where senses are heightened, the flame burns brightly, and everything feels exciting. Even the most stable relationships have to cool down from the molten lava stage to form a sturdy foundation that you can build a life on. This doesn’t mean that you have to settle for lackluster love, though. Try these tips to heat things up a bit and keep that inner flame alive.
Share Your Fantasies
How often to you really talk to your partner about your fantasies? After several years together, you probably figure you both know what the other likes. Falling back on these time-tested staples can leave your love life feeling stagnant. Communication is vitally important to every relationship. If you’re having trouble talking about your feelings, try speaking with an Internet psychic first. This can help you access your spiritual self and get the lines of communication open.
Take Your Time
If you have children, a busy job, or both, you may find yourself cramming your relationship into the tiny chunks of time that are left after you take care of everything else. Put your love life first for a change, and block out a long afternoon just for this. Don’t rush into the bedroom to take care of things in record time. Slow down and savor each moment.
Expand Your Comfort Zone
Don’t be afraid to try something new. New experiences are what keeps life interesting. Approach every day with a fresh taste for adventure and you’ll find many thrilling ways to keep things interesting. Expand your comfort zone slowly at first if this is a difficult exercise for you. As you experience how successful new tricks and techniques can be, you may find that you can hardly wait to add even more to your bedroom repertoire.
Put Some Effort into Your Appearance
This isn’t for your partner – it’s for you. When you feel good about yourself, you’ll be able to enjoy intimate encounters with your partner even more. If you feel frumpy and run down, it will be difficult to find that romantic spark even if your partner is building a campfire. Exercise and a healthy diet are about more than just managing your weight. They also strengthen your immune system, improve your mood, and increase your libido.
Build the Anticipation
Take hours – or even days – to build up to a special encounter with your partner. Take time to prepare thoroughly. Get a tarot love reading to point you in the right direction and help you choose the perfect moment. Send alluring messages and plan your special evening or weekend escape together. The anticipation of your time together will make the moment that much sweeter.
A little spark underneath your relationship can quickly turn into a thriving flame that will keep your love strong for decades to come. Tend the fire carefully and it will never burn out.