What to do when the Sex isn't Great

What to do when the Sex isn't Great

November 20, 2018
What should you do if the sex is no good?
What should you do if the sex is no good?
You're dating a new guy - he's smart, funny and caring. When the two of you are out together, he's witty and charming and always offers to pay the bill. Everything's going great - well, almost everything. There's just one problem. Things in the bedroom are, well, not so good.

Maybe he's nervous or inexperienced, or maybe he just doesn't know what he's doing. Whatever the reason, the sex is awful - his rhythm is off, he doesn't last long enough and he's just not into foreplay. How can you bring it up with him without hurting his ego? And what can you do to help him improve, so you can save your relationship with a guy who's otherwise a great catch?

Guys often don't take kindly to criticism of their sexual performance, so instead of telling him what you don't like, focus on rewarding him when he does something you really enjoy. Telling him what you like as he's doing it - either verbally or just by moaning or moving - will give him some clues to what makes you happy in bed. And since most guys really do aim to please in the bedroom, he'll be much more likely to repeat the behaviors that you respond well to.

For more advice, contact a psychic. Our gifted psychics can see if this sexual mismatch is just temporary, or if you'll really need to guide your guy in the boudoir.

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