Did you meet an exciting new person that sparks a love interest, or did you reconnect with someone from your past? It can be so exhilarating. The possibilities are endless. But when it comes to following through and the next call, life is not always straightforward. Depending on how you interact: in-person, online, dating apps, distance, phone, text, or some combination, the communication can become confusing and hard to understand. The question that many women have pondered over the years, ‘when will he call?’ is full of potential but also possible disappointment.
So, let’s figure out how to move forward with confidence, self-respect, and more clarity.
I am ready, when will they call?
You’ve already met a person that you feel strongly drawn to. It’s a fantastic feeling. It does not matter if this is your first love, later in life, or somewhere in between. It can be so exciting. The timing for the next call varies widely. The energy now has shifted and intensified for many on the planet. This transition makes life feel intense and challenging while simultaneously revealing a more powerful connection. The key here is to learn to trust your intuition. This physical and emotional attraction can also be a deep spiritual bond that goes way beyond logic. You know this is meant to be in your heart and soul.
But you also need to know that this magical bond is complex. You each feel the insanely powerful connection, but how are you interpreting this feeling? And how is your potential love? For you, it usually feels precious and right; however, depending on what each of you is going through in your life, you or your POI can sometimes resist this pure love. If you struggle to trust yourself, you may be in denial and unwilling to accept this gift of what you have been asking for at the deepest levels. You have an amazingly raised understanding and almost sense that you've already crossed paths and “know” this person's soul, even if you are meeting them for the first time. It is incredible. And this mutual union can be life-changing, that is, if you are both ready for the path of discovery.
Is it time to temper my enthusiasm?
Let’s break this down a bit. One of the biggest hurdles is interpreting a sense of disconnect. We already know that there is a strong connection on your part, no doubt about it. You think it may be mutual. However, you are not sure where the other person is coming from. They may be a great match and ready to move forward. But there are often bumps in the road for this journey for you two. Hmm… Sit with this for a moment.
To determine what is best for you, it is necessary to calm yourself and connect with mother earth or find other ways to find a sense of safety. Do your best to reduce your fears and anxiety. This is simply your ego and personality trying to protect you from uncertainty. This can be done in a variety of ways. Some popular methods include time in nature, walking, meditation, yoga & stretching, Reiki, crystals and essential oils, lighting a candle, setting intentions, manifestations, and praying. Once you are in a calm, grounded place, ask your guides what your highest and best is. Do your due diligence with this situation. Consider contacting our Psychics for neutral insights when moving forward with this person.
Are my concerns valid?
Getting to know a person takes time. If you are listening to your own wisdom and have enthusiasm, that is great. But, if you do not hear from the special person when you expected, or the calls come too fast, there are a few topics worth exploring.
- Should I answer that first call?
Are you eager to spend more time with them? Does your caller have an interest in what you want and need? Or are they trying to control everything? Do they seem desperate and needy? Are you getting red flags or serious reasons to hit the pause button or even end the connection? Or is this a wonderful potential relationship that needs more time to develop?
- Do you trust this initial connection?
How does this bond feel to you? Is it worth pursuing, or are you getting the vibe the other person can’t be trusted? Pay attention to your inner insights. Are you clear about what you are looking for in a relationship? Is it simply dating and fun, or do you want more?
- Do Not Overthink This
Life is meant to be enjoyed. Some people are great at communication and planning, and others are not.
Essential Questions to Consider Asking a Psychic
We are all unique and may look for very different things when dating. Consider some of these powerful questions to ask yourself and ask a Psychic as you navigate this time and space of dating.
- What messages or wisdom can support me with my dating life and more?
- Help me identify what’s holding me back from dating success?
- Can I trust this person to <fill in the blank>.
- Are they interested in the same lifestyle I am?
- Does our future look positive? Marriage? Children?
- Will they commit to me and be exclusive?
- Do they have others (current or ex) who will interfere with us in the future?
- Is this connection worth it for me?
- Are they taking me for granted?
- Is it in my highest and best to cut ties with them and walk away?
- Do I need to stand up for myself and speak my truth?
- Is there anything else I need to be aware of?
Here are a few tips to consider before your call
Tip 1: Provide your and your POI's first name and birthday so your Psychic can get the most accurate information for your reading.
Tip 2: Make a list of questions and concerns before your call to make the best use of your time.
Tip 3: Sit with this for a moment because how you feel is just as important as what you think.
Get a Love Life Reading
Let me or another Love, Sex, & Romance Psychic here at PathForward help you decipher confusing connections. And remember, everyone in the dating world has baggage, communication styles, expectations, and a world of distractions. The meeting of two souls can go many ways. Be curious and learn about the other person. Are they asking questions about you, too? Keep dreaming about what you desire. Loosen your expectations about how this will go. You have the power to live your life and attract souls that light you up. Go for it!