If you identify with the latter rather than the former, it's important not to get too down-in-the-dumps about the situation. The truth is that while everyone has different personalities, most people are able to eventually befriend someone with whom they click.
Try to do your best to get out there and meet people with similar interests. While it may take a leap of faith to sign up for that class at a local college without anyone familiar by your side, you never know what exciting people may be there.
Additionally, do your best to break out of your shell. It may be a struggle, but starting a conversation with an unfamiliar face may be just the thing you need to show you how easy it really is to befriend someone new.
If you're still having trouble meeting new mates, speak with a psychic. An online psychic can use her gifts to tell you what amazing individuals will be entering your life as soon as you take a leap of faith.